About the song

Released in late 2004 as the third single from her blockbuster debut album, Here for the Party, this track offered a different facet of Wilson’s artistry, one that perhaps showcased her depth beyond the “Redneck Woman” persona. It’s a ballad, yes, but it carries the same raw honesty and emotional resonance that defines her best work. For those of us who’ve lived a bit and understand the complexities of long-term commitments, this song speaks volumes.

“When I Think About Cheatin’” isn’t about the act itself, but rather the internal struggle, the moments of temptation, and ultimately, the powerful reasons why one chooses to stay true. Wilson, along with co-writers John Rich and Vicky McGehee, crafted a lyric that is both relatable and profoundly mature. It acknowledges that wandering thoughts can sometimes creep in, but it firmly plants its feet in the unwavering commitment to a valued relationship. The beauty of the song lies in its frank admission of human fallibility, paired with an ultimate triumph of love and loyalty. It’s a testament to the strength found in choosing fidelity, not out of naive innocence, but out of a clear understanding of the devastating cost of betrayal.

The musical arrangement is subtle yet effective, allowing Wilson’s vocals to truly shine. Her delivery is heartfelt and convincing, lending gravitas to the very personal narrative. It’s the kind of song that prompts reflection, perhaps a quiet nod of understanding from anyone who has ever faced a difficult choice in a relationship. Gretchen Wilson demonstrated with this track that she was far more than a one-dimensional party-starter; she was an artist capable of exploring the emotional landscape of adult relationships with sincerity and power. “When I Think About Cheatin’” stands as a poignant reminder that true strength often lies in the choices we make when faced with temptation, and the profound value we place on the love we already have.

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Lyrics

I’ve never done anything
That would ever bring a tear to your eye
I’ve never crossed the line
Or needed an alibi to cover up a lie
But darlin’ I’ll admit
They’re been times when I could have
The thing that kept me strong
Is the one thing that is always on my mind
When I think about cheatin’
I just think about you leavin’
And how my world would fall to pieces
If I tossed your love away
Even when I’m tempted by some stranger
Oh, there’s never any danger
I just think about you leavin’
When I think about cheatin’
There was a time in Abilene
When he said all the things I wanted to hear
It was hard to turn him down
Between the champagne and the sound of whispers in my ear
But it just took one
Two-step with someone and I was missing you
He never had a chance ’cause I broke up the dance
Before the song was through
When I think about cheatin’
I just think about you leavin’
And how my world would fall to pieces
If I tossed your love away
Even when I’m tempted by some stranger
Oh, there’s never any danger
I just think about you leavin’
When I think about cheatin’
And when I’m tempted by some stranger
Oh, there’s never any danger
I just think about you leavin’
When I think about cheatin’